Sleeping together but not dating
If sex is all he was after, then you’ll know that pretty soon. I’ve noticed there seems to be a symptom of online dating: the cybergrass is always greener. A whole plethora of potential dates are popping up on searches, so it’s easy to believe that even when you have a good thing, there’s someone else even better out there. In the meantime, ask yourself: what do you want out of the relationship? In order to be dating someone, you need to be going out on dates, among other things.After the jump, 25 signs you’re not actually dating.Whether you’ve slept with the guy or not, it’s too soon to tell where it will go from here.It seems to me that you’re feeling remorse or guilt about jumping into bed with this guy on date one.If he likes you and your chemistry holds him, then the relationship will continue. I’m not trying to minimize the sex, but that isn’t enough to tip the scale of his interest one way or another. But be prepared for him not to come back for another reason.
The gay man’s perspective: Darren Maddox BG, since there’s a little lag time between the time we receive a question and the time we answer it, I’ll bet this one has already worked itself out.
But, it would be unfair to only focus on men when there are many women who could use the same reality check, too.
So here’s my follow up for all you ladies who need that advice you won’t get anywhere else.
Last week I wanted to give some hard-hitting advice.
So I wrote a post on harsh dating truths that men need to hear.