National average dating before marriage
Now, people are waiting longer and longer to get married.
The national average in 1960 was 20 for women and 22 for men.
In the past 22 years, between 24 and 29 percent of each graduating class at BYU left with not only a diploma, but a spouse as well (Y facts).
However, the amount of group dating at BYU over the past 22 years has also increased, and it’s presented a problem for marriage.
“When you get married young, you can build habits together instead of having to sacrifice for each other’s individual habits later in life,” he said.
Dew said that is because of the shift in the importance of marriage and a shift in what it means to get married.
“Today people don’t marry until they feel like they have arrived,” said Dew.
“Someone who marries at 25 is over 50 percent less likely to get divorced than someone who weds at age 20,” said Wolfinger.
“Most youthful couples simply do not have the maturity, coping skills and social support it takes to make marriage work.” Utah State University alumnus, Chase Christensen, experienced this first hand.