Dating advice for divorced women over 40
Very rarely does a man my age ask me out or even flirt with me. I don't know the answer.it does help to know that you aren't alone. I would love to date for friendship, but heterosexual men see that as a way of playing them without interest in genuine relationships (translation: sex). The dating pool for both sexes over 40 is very marginal I've found.They think it's a waste of time to just get to know someone. I met a variety of men, mostly gentlemen, and finally found that special one. Find someone who has some of your interests and can introduce you to something new. I am apparently the woman that men use to cover up their relationships with other women. I'm in the front girl, the other girl, the nice one who plays by the rules while they cheat. You're dealing with lots of broken and damaged people.
My advice--do all the dating you can before 35, after that it's going to be very dismal. If not, what exactly are we going to talk about for 12 weeks? I tell each one the same exact thing: “If you’re dating a few men right now and can guarantee me that you’ll have at least one date a week for the duration of our time together, we can start coaching.Its just very awkward and somewhat insulting to be approached only by those old enough to be your parents or young enough to be your child. I too get attention from men in their late 60's and early 70's.I also get a lot of attention from men in their 30's.